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I just found out that my boyfriend also cheated on me...what should I do?





The first question I will like to ask you is, do you love him? If your answer is yes, then you need to pray to God for strength against temptations that will lead you to cheat on him (again).

 During our moments of weaknesses, that is, when we feel lonely, down or angry, our mind becomes a "temptation playground" and in such moments, it's eminent that you fight off any thoughts that would lead you into temptation, by taking them captive and making them obedient to Christ as Paul stated in 2 Corinthians 10:5, or as Jesus did in Luke 4:1-13.  Thank you...
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  1. Anonymous30 January 2013 at 13:15

    Forgiveness is great and all but I would say you both need to end things and move on. I think you should take the lessons learnt and not make the same mistakes when you finally meet your Mr.Right.

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